Monday, February 27, 2017

Daniel's Winter Camp Out

Daniel got to spend the weekend participating with the Cub Scouts at their Winter Campout.  He and Mark didn't stay overnight (both of them like to go to bed early and get up early and eat their own food early), but they still had lots of fun!


One of the fun activities was a giant swing.  The swing was simply a climbing harness attached to a long rope.  The rule was, if the harness fit, you could swing.

 The way the swing worked was you climb a tall ladder on a platform, get pulled by a staff member until you were really high in the air, and when you were ready, you unhooked another rope and you swung free over a ravine.  I'm so glad I wasn't there.
See that tiny thing up there? That's my baby.
 I much prefer the safety of a climbing wall.


They also played lots of fun, competitive games and Daniel was chosen for teams frequently.  He has been a late bloomer socially, so have Cub Scouts has been invaluable.  Being stuck between two sets of sisters was supposed to gentle him a bit, but I don't like the way he is starting to mimic the way they talk.


Wilderness survival was probably the most fun.  Daniel built a very nice shelter, don't you think?

Saturday, February 25, 2017

The Commons

I often complain that my children prefer to just sit around arguing by the fire like a bunch of old Romans in the town square.  Or like a bunch of college students who think they know everything but really know nothing.  They don't get much "schoolwork" done in these moments, but I hope they are forming strong families ties that will last through all eternity...
Read his arm
Ian has been home all week on Midwinter break.  By Thursday, he had slipped back into his old position in the sibling group and I felt like everything was right again.  They have been doing their normal Ian-led random activities/contests/debates.  My heart is happy and "schoolwork" can wait until he goes back to school next week.

There is something to be said about allowing your scholar-aged kids take a day to slip back into their Core phase and be a kid again.  I saw it with Ami and now I get to see it with Ian.  Ian has created a public school persona that is unlike his old homeschool self.  At school, he is a funny, popular athlete that may or may not have a larger than average family, but he isn't telling.  His home self, when he gets comfortable being here again, is a funny, dorky, Zelda-playing woodcarver.  Shhh! I won't tell if you won't!

Friday, February 24, 2017

Papa's Memories

My desk drawer got stuck today, so I decided to declutter it... and found a stack of papers written by my Nana and Papa in April of 2004, when Laura was studying World War II in high school.  I'd like to share what my Papa wrote.  He had a great sense of humor and a knack for writing; I really enjoyed reading his letter and wish I got to talk to him as much as I talked to Nana in later years she was alive.

"It became evident late in 1942 and early 1943 that America was continuing to "draft" additional men to do battle against its World War II enemies.  Not wanting to be in the position of being "drafted," and with all the courage I could muster, which, admittedly, was not great, I made attempts at "enlisting." First I approached the Air Force, then the Navy, then the Coast Guard, and I was rejected by all because of my poor eyesight. Great, I figured I'm home free.

But, not so fast! Within weeks I received the infamous "You are hereby notified...." letter from the Army, indicating that I was to report for induction into the United States Army.  Evidently, nobody had told them about my poor eyesight.  Responding to Uncle Sam's order, I reported to the induction center for testing, examination, etc. Lo and behold, my poor eyesight didn't seem to bother them one bit.  Interestingly, when the eye doctor asked me to read the eye chart, I told him that I could not see even what I assumed to be the big E at the top of the chart.  He thought I was being a smart one, but I suggested he check the lenses in my glasses.  In any case, I passed the physical, notwithstanding my poor eyesight (just think of potential consequences should I be given a rifle as a weapon).

Processed through Govenor's Island (in New York Bay), on a cold, wet, miserable day, I had my first experience of drinking hot coffee, courtesy of the Salvation Army. More to survive than to enjoy, I'm sure I had more than one cup.  Then it was off to Fort Dix (new Jersey) for more processing, suffering, waiting and anxiety.  Like Abraham of old, I knew I was going someplace but not sure where.  Two to three weeks in Fort Dix, with even worse weather, plus mud, is gratefully a thing of the past and is best forgotten.  However....

First, loaded upon each poor soul were two heavy barracks bags containing all winter clothing and equipment.  Then another physical, including several "shots" in each arm, it seemed.  When the man in front of me in line fainted on getting his shots, I merely stepped over him; for all I know he may still be there.  Then, with sore, aching arms wrestling with two heavy bags, we were marched clear across Fort Dix, I'm sure.  Destination: one small tent, with four cots and a tiny coal stove.  Where the coal was I don't know; nobody ever attempted to go out in the cold, wet, muddy area to find it.

I confess that, as a "city boy" all my life, I put on all the clothing issued to me, including the overcoat and raincoat, hats (plural), determined to last the night out.  One of the other cots was claimed by a "farm boy" from Idaho, who jumped into his cot with just his longjohns on.  He was probably used to that kind of weather.  He made one mistake, though; he put his false teeth in a glass of water and in the morning they were iced in solid.  If laughter is good for the soul, we were blessed.

When waiting for "orders" at Fort Dix, one learns even simple survival tricks.  I learned early on to stand in the center of work formations, inasmuch as assignments were usually made from one end and then the other.  Those left generally had to make themselves scarce.  But, it was still wet and cold and muddy, and after one experience hauling fifty-pound sacks of potatoes, I figured it was time to look for a better way of life.  My chance came when a corporal asked the formation if anyone had worked as a waiter.  I immediately said that my father is a butler, and, fortunately, that seemed to sink into the corporal's still forming skull.  So, in and out of rain, cold and mud, and into the chow area, where I had the privilege of serving anyone over the rank of private.

Another stint of duty was at a table recording results of physical exams, of which the less said the better.  At least it was again out of the weather.

Finally the day came when "shipping our" orders came for our group of sad sacks, the orders not to be opened until one was actually on transportation to wherever.

En route to New York City, I opened my orders....and what do I discover? I'm being assigned to the Brooklyn Army Base! Oh, happy day! I'm sure they felt that was the safest place for everyone concerned, that should I be issued a rifle, with my poor eyesight nobody would be safe.

Actually, that may have been proven when I was at the shooting range at Fort Hamilton (Brooklyn) as part of basic training (for what, I don't know). In any case, when it was our turn to fire the rifle, we learned that ships in the harbor had been warned away from the area.  And, when it was my turn to shoot, I feel rather certain that dust was flying all around Brooklyn.  But, either because I had a friend recording my shots or they just wanted to get the thing over as soon as possible, I ended up with a score good enough to earn a "marksman" medal.

Along the way, I was assigned to the signal school, to learn Morse code and flag code.  The first was interesting, but the other needed good eyesight.  I had one scare when being assigned to the radio room on a ship was rumored.  Oh boy, I get seasick on the Staten Island Ferry, so think what that would have been in an enclosed room on a rolling ship.  So it ended up with just Nana and me dit-dahing and dah-ditting back and forth for practice.

My real assignment finally jelled.  It involved working in an office atmosphere serving the Commanding Officer of the Base, together with his staff of Colonels, Captains, Lieutenants, Sergeants, as well as the legal staff of the courts martial section.  And that I did for three years, using experience I had gained in the business world previously.  I must have served well, because they moved me up in rank to Sergeant Technician.  In addition, when the order was received that any GI who had not yet served overseas was to be so assigned, wheels turned quickly to assign me and a few co-GI's to a ship returning foreign field workers to their home countries, we serving as "Military Police." This assignment merited an "overseas" ribbon, we having sailed in dangerous waters to foreign nations, plus an addition $200 on discharge from the Service.

I was fortunate that I could serve my country during the World War II period in my assignment to the Brooklyn Army Base.  Twelve months after receiving that assignment, Nana and I were married, and we lived in an apartment in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn.  At that point I became, in essence, a "commuter," though I did have to maintain a bed, locker, uniform and equipment at the Base, as well as stand inspections and routine and special formations.  We all at the Brooklyn Army Base are proud of the fact that no enemy ever even attempted to challenge us throughout our tour there.  Brooklyn Army Base was in good hand!"

If laughter is good for the soul, we were blessed.  ~My new favorite saying!

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Snow Day

Our snow days are just so soggy and sparse compared to where we used to live.  But we'll take what we can get.
The hats I made Ian and Shane
Lula sledding with Genna
Big sisters are awesome!
And so are big brothers....
...or are they?




The snow was so heavy that it broke the turkey shelter

And revenge is a dish best served...
COLD!

Saturday, February 4, 2017

Magic 8

Did you know that in the state of Washington, you don't have to legally send your kid to school until they are eight years old? Homeschoolers don't have to report their kid as homeschooling until the year they turn eight and public schooling is compulsory starting at eight.  So what is Kindergarten and 1st Grade for?  Readiness.  Kids that are "mathy" and get numbers easily are usually behind in language arts and reading.  Kids that are natural readers need more time to catch up in math.  By the time they are eight years old, they tend to be balanced out in their abilities and comprehension.  I've noticed that a lot of professional educators and curriculum developers offer products and services that remedy the imbalance, yet I've also noticed that time itself works all by itself.  This is what has happened with Fiona.

For years I struggled with Fiona and anything that had to do with math and time.  She could read anything, but couldn't spell to save her life or remember anything of value (get my pun?) unless it was gossipy in nature.  She is naturally very social and can remember all sorts of details about people she has never met.  Just this year she has completely bloomed in all areas.

100% on 100 math facts in 10 minutes!

We just started Memoria Press's Second Grade set.  Fiona is technically, according to the school district calendar, a third grader, but MP is academically challenging and many people work a grade level lower.  I found this to be true with Sonlight/Bookshark too.  Fiona is absolutely cruising through two math books at once (Saxon 2 and Math-U-See Beta), learning cursive faster than I can teach it, and just soaking up the Latin.

Latin? Hello? Didn't I just say at the beginning of the school year that Latin declensions weren't on the list of necessary subjects for little kids? Yes, I did, but Fiona has the desire and enthusiasm.  She is on fire for book learning!  And I think some of my other kids are being inspired to buckle down and get some book learning done too.  They are asking for more structure and I am happy to provide it.  I'm a happy homeschool mama again!

Monday, January 30, 2017

B.I.

I started blogging in 2007, well after Ian, Shane, and Genevieve were born.  Their little stories will be lost to eternity if I don't write them down.  This is why I dreamed up the term B.I. last night.  This abbreviation means...Before Ian.  Before Ian was born.

Before Ian was born, technology was so different!  My goodness, we still used a film camera and cell phones flipped open and only made phone calls.  The digital cameras we had either attached to the top of a computer monitor that weighed 25lbs or were packed in a foam-lined suitcase the size of a footstool. I hand wrote letters to people to fill them in on what was going on in my life instead of updating my status on Facebook.  I even kept a journal.

I spent my pregnancy with Ian at graduate school.  Being married and pregnant at school is a much different social scene than being single and unattached. No one invites you to their parties for one.  And you don't have anything to talk about with the other students if you didn't go to the party.  So I stopped enjoying the social part of school and spent more time just being the studious one...when I wasn't napping. Or eating. And I did plenty of both in my "graduate student office."  Hm, I wonder if I ever cleaned out my desk? I know I never gave the keys to the building back.

My Master's thesis project was basically handed to me by the Whatcom County Conservation District.  I was going to study how streams that had had their meanders replaced by bulldozer compared to streams that were still channelized into nice, straight lines.  I was so naive.  What the heck was I going to do with the baby after he was born, stick him in a playpen on the side of the creek while I electrofished? Hahaha!

My last quarter at school I was taking a class that I think may have been Advanced Stream Ecology.  My lab partner and I had to design a stream ecology project.  We collected water samples and macroinvertebrate (bug) samples from a few streams around Lake Whatcom and analyzed them.  By this time, my chest waders didn't fit over my baby bump, so I switched to my hip waders.  I was still scrambling up and down creek banks with a tote full of glass bottles and sulfuric acid.  My lab partner worked part-time with Mark at WDFW and he would ask Mark if I should really be clambering around like that in my condition.  I do remember the last field day before Ian was born.  I had a hard time getting my leg over the chain at the end of the road and decided to stay up on the bank and let my lab partner do all the work.  He said he was going to feel responsible if something bad happened to me.  The day before my water broke, I obsessively titrated water samples and counted bugs in the lab: the scientist's version of nesting.

Ian was born three weeks before the end of the quarter.  My lab partner and I still had to finalize our results and come up with a presentation for our class.  I look back now and think, "Good gracious, I actually functioned a bit with a newborn?"  Honestly, most of what happened in the weeks after Ian was born are a blur.  I remember needing extra time to get used to having a baby (ha. ha. ha. breastfeeding and waking up all night long? Hello???) and I remember sitting downstairs in front of my computer holding Ian when I was supposed to be writing my paper.  I know I didn't go back to any classes, but I did do my final presentation and take my final test while Mark stayed home with Ian.  Three weeks postpartum.

(The only picture that survived off my computer camera. Ian looks between two to four weeks old.  He must have been cold! Where are his clothes! What kind of a mom would take her newborn baby into a cold, dark basement with no shirt on???)

But once I held Ian in my arms, I knew I didn't want to go back to school and finish my degree.  I just wanted to be a Mama.  So I dropped out and never looked back.

Saturday, January 28, 2017

The Year of the Rooster

With today being Chinese New Year and the beginning of the Year of the Rooster, I'd like to tell you a bit about one of our roosters.  His name used to be Roosevelt II, but we, just in the last week, changed his name to... Jerky.

Every time I go out to my van, he is waiting for me. Not Mark, not Genna. Me.  He lurks on the other side of the shed, waiting to hear the sound of my voice or the doors on the van being opened and closed.  Sometimes I have to quickly jump in the van with a kid under my arm and shut the door...and he is always waiting for me.


He won't be long in this world.